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ATTEMPT TO PUNISH WANT TO MEETto punish want to meet not me not doing what is wanted or expected 6 Orchestrate a perfect apology make music for your ears The beginning turn a molehill into a mountain Don t make diminishing comments Middle dig deep And that your real wrong No buts The end repair and prevents Repair damage It prevents a rerun7 Negotiate for love nothing is ever 50 50 avoid winning at all costs Tell it like it is preferences and what you re willing to give p Get rid of the judge and jury Keep your mouth shut don t make comparisons know alternatives 8 When your mate is criticized in public it is a character revealing moment for you You defend in public even if you disagree and private The clearly you can define what it means to be loyal to each other the stronger you ll be as a couple and the secure you will feel in your love9 Be lovable if you want to be loved you must be lovable Even if your spouse shoots fight lines in your direction that doesn t give you permission to fire back The pain your meet is experiencing from a bad sunburn is explicitly his or her pain At times like this all you can do is offer your support and show your kindness by trying to help alleviate pain10 Listen without criticizing Nothing earth shattering but advice on how to communicate with your spouse better Let s face it fights sually are due to a lack of communication or to miscommunication The author talks about ways to have better communication to express your needs without coming off as needy or bossy The basic message I got out of this book for my marriage is to show appreciation to my husband Some kindly placed thank you s a kiss at bedtime and greeting your spouse when they return home are ways to make you feel connected to each other Sure there are other things to work on but these were the easy things for me to implement and they helped me immediatel. Nt and ltimately lead to the deterioration of otherwise healthy relationshipsLove is conditional argues Puhn and for love to survive couples don't need to talk they need to talk better With exercises examples and sample scripts Puhn's simple 5 minute strategies promise immediate results and provide long lasting communication skills that couples can confidently employ when faced with future confli. Broken into logical sections and the flow is organized in small bites so as to be readable and not intimidating Each section is rich with examples and many are from the author s own life which reminds s that no one is immune to communication breakdowns while also establishing the author as an eual someone whom we can trust not some lofty degreed authority raining down adviceDescriptions and exercises help Pounded By Bikers us to determine what characteristics in ourselves as well as in our partners contribute to communication issuesThe solutions are sized to be easy to work with too 5 Minute Conversations Who can t spare five minutes to address an issue as important as one s relationship I LOVE this book Of course I do I m the author I wrote it for people on the brink of breakp and for those who simply want their pretty good relationship to get even better It "S NOT A BOOK OF THERAPY IT S A "not a book of therapy it s a of answers From the mediation background I strive to give people interesting examples and clever stories of how the wrong words lead to bad fights and breakdowns while the right words lead to relationships based on mutual respect and appreciation For information you can visit my website at wwwfightlesslovecom If you liked this book take a look at my first book Instant Persuasion How to Change Your Words to Change Your LifeAnd by the way isn t goodreads fantastic I listened to the book and took notes I actually think this has a lot of really good advice for marriages I have been reading several marriage related book in the last week and they all have very similar themes in the last week and they all have very similar themes what causes issues within relationships Violations of appreciation respect compassion trust and companionship are at the core of all disagreements some books list but they really are just synonyms for theseThe 5 minute conversations while nice in theory I m not sure are achievable as 5 minute conversations especially in the heat of the moment BUT the various ideas within them can be applied and I do think they will help Highlights1 Five vital habits greetings hello and goodbye Good morning Good night I love you for fill in the blank A compliment2 Wrong track five ways over criticize disguising personal preference Using criticism to humiliate your meet in front of others Using criticism to rub it in her face Criticizing something after the fact Correcting a person not a mistake3 Tame rudeness disgruntled couple streets Heather with poor manners Gradually the negative saloon longer larger and we. Ch have such difficulty talking to one anotherDrawing on her expertise in legal mediation and conflict resolution Puhn's fresh approach gives simple 5 minute conversations that will instantly improve communication as well as the ality of relationships In Fight Less Love More learn how to identify and conuer the poor verbal habits instinctive responses and emotional reasoning that can cloud judgme. ,
Book Club read good so farThis is a good even thinking "of buying it is really good for couples in crisis but "buying it It is really good for couples in crisis but great tips for every couple Like the short chapters and difference scenarios Nice ick scripts to healthy conversations However doesn t address the nderlying issues that might hold someone back from saying the words I recommend if you re looking for high level guidance I won this book on Goodreads First Reads Although I have read several self help books they are not my sualfavorite genre Fight Less Love More was a great read Chapter 3 was my favorite where Puhn spells out specific things to say to set the proper tone for any relationship Couples wanting to improve their relationship will get a lot of mileage out of this bookPuhn is a Harvard educated family and divorce lawyermediator She gives readers common sense tools to se to make good relationships great or to mend struggling ones You can buy and read this book at 2499 for a hardcover and be on your way or you can pay a counselor 3 times that much each session The math is easyIf you re a Broncos fan you ll get this Laurie Puhn is to Dr Laura what Kyle Orton is to Jake Plumber This gets 35 stars for the good information Too cheezy to make anything If you can get past the corny catch phrases specifically the title of the book which is repeated ad nauseam throughout it actually has some great information Admittedly most of the information is common sense but it does seem like common sense often takes a back seat in relationships so this offers some good reminders Overall worth a read as it is ick and easy to read and offers some helpful advice This book is great I highly highly recommend picking it Yoga Meditation up whether you re having issues in your relationship or if you re just generally looking to be a better spouse I connected well with most of its contents so it really opened my eyesp to things I may have been to stubborn it seeor admit The format of this novel is laid out in sections so you can skip the parts that don t relate with you or your particular situation I m looking forward to adding some of these lessons into my every day to live a happier healthier life I won this book on Goodreads Giveaways Thanks Rodale and GoodreadsI was interested in this book because while my spouse and I have a very good relationship one can always improve When we do argue I see Thirty Two And A Half Complications Rose Gardner Mystery 5 us both falling into habitual patterns but am powerless in the emotion of the moment to changeThe book is. Harvard trained lawyer and family and divorce mediator Laurie Puhn shows busy couples how to stop fighting and start communicatingIt happens every day a simple exchange or harmless response turns into a heated debate or worse an all out battle Hard pressed forality time with our partners and spouses it's easy to fall into a poor communication routine How can two people who love one another so mu.